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【长者圆梦】为母亲解开了三十多年的心结-尊龙人生就是博

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      我的父亲已经过世,母亲已经年近古稀,是一个国有企业退休的老会计。我母亲寡居多年,因为不愿给我们添麻烦,一直坚持自己单独居住,而且还在补差上班,每周工作两天。她不工作的时候还会和朋友出去聚会游玩,把自己的晚年安排的也很充实,是一个生活独立、豁达开朗的老太太。其实我们都明白,她之所以把自己的生活安排的很满,也是为了减少一些孤独感吧。因此我和爱人、孩子时常去探望母亲,每次去了陪母亲说说话,总能在母亲脸上看到幸福和满足的笑容。我一直觉得母亲的晚年算是不圆满中的圆满了。

      通过这次“长者圆梦”的契机,我和母亲聊到了关于母亲的心愿,起初母亲反应是很诧异,而后也没有正面回答,我想大概是因为我们从来都没有聊到过关于“梦想”、“心愿”这类的话题,而且母亲很怕她的需求给我们增加负担吧。后来,聊到深处,母亲才告诉我一个藏在心里多年的心结。

      三十多年前,父亲还在世的时候,自己家和大姑家因为拆迁分房子的事情闹的很不愉快,甚至自此两家不再来往了。这么多年过去,我们两家的孩子们也偶尔聚会,但是长辈们碍于面子和当时的过节一直避而不见。其实原本母亲和大姑的关系是很要好的,但就因为这个事情导致了两家疏离,原来,这一直是母亲挥之不去的心结。后来我就趁着过节,邀请了大姑家和母亲一起吃饭。起初我内心是忐忑的,我担心场面可能会尴尬,没想到,母亲和大姑一见面,两人相拥而泣,全然没再提及当年的不快,就像多年未见的老朋友重聚一样。

      我想,如果没有这个“长者圆梦”的契机,自己刨根问底地问母亲,以母亲的性格是绝然不会跟我提及的,也是这个契机,帮母亲解开了这几十年的心结,我心里也放下了一个大石头。

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