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【长者圆梦】一个善意的谎言-尊龙人生就是博

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我们家都是土生土长的农村人,爸妈习惯了节俭,虽然现在生活条件变好了,在城里也买了房子,但是爸妈的生活节俭的习惯从未改变过。爸妈已经60岁了,这些年,除了来天津看过我,也没有去过其他的城市,所以我一直想带他们出去旅游。我和爸妈主动提过很多次都被他们拒绝了,总说不想出去,在家就很好,其实我明白,他们哪是不想去,就是怕花钱。

2019年的时候,正好我有年假7天,我就想着这次一定要带爸妈出去走走。因为担心父母再次拒绝,于是我编造了一个善意的谎言

当时我和领导说明了情况,希望领导配合我“演戏”领导表示理解我的苦心,也愿意支持我的孝心。领导就用她微信发给我一份获奖证明——“因本年度业绩优秀荣获2万元旅游券”,这样我就以得奖为由带着父母安心出去旅游了。自己还发了一个获奖朋友圈,设置仅爸妈可看,这下爸妈才彻底相信了。

我还记得当时爸妈热泪盈眶,为拥有“优秀”的女儿感到骄傲。当时的我心里五味陈杂——原来让爸妈最开心的并非能出去旅游,而是看到女儿获奖,这让我既感到惭愧又感到庆幸。惭愧的是自己还不如他们期待那般优秀,庆幸的是我终于能靠自己的能力实现爸妈的愿望了。我也暗自发誓,希望能真正成为值得他们骄傲的女儿。

经过沟通,我了解到爸妈一直想去海南看看大海,于是我报了一个纯玩团带爸妈坐上飞机,去海南玩了6天。这6天里,我们一起住了海景房、小木屋,看大海,吃海鲜,爸妈终于可以抛开“怕花钱”的心理负担,这次旅行,他们开心得像个孩子。我看见爸妈那么开心,作为女儿的我既欣慰又内疚——我早该这么做

父母辛劳大半辈子给我们花钱时二话不说却从来舍不得花钱让自己享乐,这就是“中国式父母”吧儿女无私付出,不求回报成了他们的习惯。每每想到这里,非常感恩更心疼他们习惯”。第二年,继续以这样的方式带爸妈去了他们想去的北京天安门和新疆。经过几次的陪伴出游,发现爸妈性格开朗了许多,我们一家人的感情也更好了。

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